The concept of pain is arbitrary and may signify different things to different individuals. It is important to keep in mind that most people do not find extreme pain or suffering to be desirable. However, some people may find beauty or importance in trying or unpleasant circumstances. Why do we need beautiful pain in life?
It will be fine
― Mouloud Benzadi
after the thunderstorm.
The sun will shine,
and it will be nice and warm.
Take working out at the gym as a metaphor. Trainers often tell us that unless working out in the gym felt like hell, nothing would happen. Does being tortured sound like a great life? Usually, torture is connected with suffering and agony. In our opinion, it is something bad that should be avoided at all costs. Even so, there is beauty in suffering.
If you’re efficient, you’re doing it the wrong way. The right way is the hard way.
― Jerry Seinfeld
When our muscles are not growing and we do not become stronger, then our time seems to have been entirely wasted. It is usually the first time we experience torture. Every fitness regimen encourages us to push past our comfort zones. With every activity, our threshold for discomfort increases.
Then we notice that we begin to yearn for pain. If our muscles don’t burn, we get annoyed. Why is that? Muscles don’t grow unless they are pushed past their breaking point. Unusual. So why do we think that we can go on in life without facing adversity, sorrow, suffering, or hard work?
The Start Is Meant To Be Hard
Frequently, we find ourselves listening to someone in our social circle lamenting the difficulties of forming a new habit or vocation. Since it takes a certain amount of effort before you start to get momentum, change is something that most individuals spend their entire lives avoiding when they start something difficult.
People often give up and suffer the terrible agony of regrets and a squandered life when they achieve no results right away. A life without variation and a monotonous routine are what we should be afraid of. What a lifeless way to go. How simple it is to learn the art of pain, accelerate time perception, and make a lifetime seem like a year.
Everything must be hard before it can be easy.
— Asian Proverb
Some Other Interpretations
Everybody has distinct preferences and tastes. There are more than seven billion people on the earth, each with a unique definition and viewpoint on beauty. Subjectivity and individuality are ultimately what define beauty.
Artistic pursuits
When they attempt to express themselves in order to generate meaningful work, many artists and creators frequently struggle with inner hassle. Although the process of making art can be emotionally draining and even difficult at times, the finished product can be stunning and restorative.
Relationships
Deep sadness as well as great delight can come from love. Pain and longing, two complicated feelings that some people may find attractive in and of themselves, are frequently present in relationships with other people.
Personal Growth
As people face their own shortcomings and seek to overcome them, the process of personal growth and learning about oneself can be difficult and even hurtful at times. In the long run, this trip may result in a more beautiful and contented life.
Adventure and exploration
Traveling, participating in adventurous activities, or taking on other experiences can all involve taking risks that can be both mentally and physically taxing. The excitement of pushing boundaries and seeing the world from fresh angles is frequently what makes these encounters delightful.
The Human Condition
We frequently find ourselves engrossed in life’s existential dilemmas. Pain can inspire thought that is deep, wide, and meaningful. These questions can be extremely thorough in some situations and aid in our comprehension of the mysteries around our personalities.
The Rewards
The challenges are not a strict requirement for success, but they can serve as valuable catalysts for personal and professional growth. Here are some reasons why people might encounter difficulties and “beautiful tortures” on their journey to success.
Personal Growth
Perseverance and personal growth can result from embracing and conquering challenges. When faced with difficulties, you have the chance to grow from them, adjust, and improve your capacity to deal with similar situations in the years to come.
Motivation
It is highly encouraging to face obstacles and hardships. They have the power to inspire you to work harder, dream bigger, and strive for excellence. Motivating yourself to overcome challenges and prosper in life can serve as a source of encouragement.
Adaptation
Experiencing challenges often provides valuable learning experiences. It forces individuals to adapt, acquire new skills, and develop innovative solutions. This learning process can be intellectually and emotionally enriching.
Character development
Strong personality characteristics like discipline, drive, and determination can emerge from overcoming hardship. Having these attributes is frequently necessary to succeed in the long run.
Gratitude
Success can become even more significant and fulfilling when it has to compete with obstacles. When you have to work hard and overcome hurdles in order to achieve the objectives you set, you feel more accomplished.
Innovation
Need is the source of creativity, and people who face difficulties are more likely to be innovative and creative in their approaches to solving issues. This innovation might lead to new concepts and opportunities.
Conclusion
Essentially, there is no universal definition of success, and it does not involve exquisite torture. The road to success can be as distinctive as the person traveling it. It is crucial to ascertain your own definition of success and to pursue it in a manner consistent with your general health and ideals. Although obstacles and failures are inevitable in life, they are not required to be excruciating in order to be fruitful.
When you birthed yourself into this reality, you were vast, elegant, exquisite, intelligent, infinite, and beautiful beyond understanding. You came into this time and space matrix to gain a soul, and that required a lot of experience. Experience is painful. Experience is expansive. Close the door by accepting the loss.
― Deborah Bravandt
Sana Ahmed Khan is a life coach and author of multiple books from Islamabad, Pakistan. As a certified life coach and author, Sana is keen on helping women from all walks of life. Sana empowers you to overcome self-doubt, find balance, and become your best self through her guidance focused on mindful living, social skills, and personal development.
